If you are in high school and you ask someone how to get your ex girlfriend back, they will probably tell you that you are too young to understand love and you should learn to move on. They will tell you that you are a teenager and there is a lot you need to experience before you can find the person you want to spend your life with.
Well, they are probably right, but that does not make your feelings for your ex girlfriend any less intense. That does not really make you feel any better about the fact that your ex girlfriend is no longer with you. In this guide, I will give you a few tips that are going to help you get her back even though you are in high school.
A Complete Step By Step Plan
Before we begin, I want you to read this article on how to win your ex girlfriend back, which is a complete step by step guide with everything you need to know about the subject. This guide is probably the most detailed and comprehensive FREE guide on the Internet. I will give you some great tips in this article, but for a complete step by step guide, read this article.
Why Your Ex Girlfriend Broke Up With You
You and your ex were having a great time together. She was amazing and you were madly in love. You thought she will always be yours and nothing will ever be able to separate you two. But suddenly, things started to fall apart. She broke up with you for some reason. Whatever the reason was, it shattered your dream of having the perfect relationship with this girl. You were supposed to be together forever but now she seems to be moving on. (Note: If you broke up with her, read How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back If YOU Broke Up With Her)
You can’t imagine her with someone else. You still love her from all your heart and you will do anything to have her back. You can’t concentrate on anything because all you do is think about her. Whenever you see her, you get this feeling in your stomach that makes you feel like you can’t live without her.
OK Romeo, here is the fact. Even though this pain might feel like love, it’s actually just a normal reaction to breakup. This is how our brains and our body react to losing someone special to us. Your ex girlfriend was special to you, no doubt about that. But it does not necessarily mean she was right for you.
The fact is she broke up, and she is still young. She is going to date other guys. And that’s OK. The truth is, people hardly ever end up with the one they date in high school. I know there are a lot of cases of high school sweethearts ending up getting married. But those are rare. And you have to accept that reality.
That being said, there is a chance that you will get her back and become one of those rare high school sweethearts.
How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back in High School.
The basic principles of getting her back are the same as mentioned in the main guide to win your ex girlfriend back. However, since you are in high school, you will face a little difficulty during the no contact period(Step 2 of the guide). Here are a few tips to consider that will increase your chances.
1. If you are in the same class, apply the no contact rule as stated in the guide. Do not talk to her unless it’s absolutely necessary. Even if she comes to talk to you, stay calm and treat her like she is an acquaintance you are in good terms with.
2. Concentrate on yourself and do things that you enjoy. Participate in extra curricular activities and meet new girls. Start hanging out with more girls and make friends with them. Your ex will soon find out that you are making new friends and will probably get jealous.
3. Remember to not do anything that might show your ex that you are still obsessed about her and want to be with her. Read the first step of this article for more details on this.
4. If you and your ex have common friends, it’s time to stay away from them for a while. It might be hard, but you can always make new friends and find new people to hang out with. I am not saying you should break friendship with them, all I am saying that you should stay away till the time you are comfortable talking about your ex and hanging out with her. (Till no contact period ends)
5.Do not participate in the high school gossip. People will talk about you two breaking up. Don’t let it affect you and don’t participate in the discussion.
The key to getting her back, even in high school is to focus on yourself. The basics of attraction remain the same no matter if you are teenager or in your fifties. If you work on yourself and become a confident and attractive person, a person who is happy with himself, she will come back to you. Again, read this article, for more detailed step by step guide to win her back.