High School – A Place Where Hearts Get Broken.
If you are in high school and you ask someone how to get your ex girlfriend back, they will probably tell you that you are too young to understand love and you should learn to move on. They will tell you that you are a teenager and there is a lot you need to experience before you can find the person you want to spend your life with.
Well, they are probably right, but that does not make your feelings for your ex girlfriend any less intense. That does not really make you feel any better about the fact that your ex girlfriend is no longer with you. In this guide, I will give you a few tips that are going to help you get her back even though you are in high school.
A Complete Step By Step Plan
Before we begin, I want you to read this article on how to win your ex girlfriend back, which is a complete step by step guide with everything you need to know about the subject. This guide is probably the most detailed and comprehensive FREE guide on the Internet. I will give you some great tips in this article, but for a complete step by step guide, read this article.
Why Your Ex Girlfriend Broke Up With You
You and your ex were having a great time together. She was amazing and you were madly in love. You thought she will always be yours and nothing will ever be able to separate you two. But suddenly, things started to fall apart. She broke up with you for some reason. Whatever the reason was, it shattered your dream of having the perfect relationship with this girl. You were supposed to be together forever but now she seems to be moving on. (Note: If you broke up with her, read How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back If YOU Broke Up With Her)
You can’t imagine her with someone else. You still love her from all your heart and you will do anything to have her back. You can’t concentrate on anything because all you do is think about her. Whenever you see her, you get this feeling in your stomach that makes you feel like you can’t live without her.
OK Romeo, here is the fact. Even though this pain might feel like love, it’s actually just a normal reaction to breakup. This is how our brains and our body react to losing someone special to us. Your ex girlfriend was special to you, no doubt about that. But it does not necessarily mean she was right for you.
The fact is she broke up, and she is still young. She is going to date other guys. And that’s OK. The truth is, people hardly ever end up with the one they date in high school. I know there are a lot of cases of high school sweethearts ending up getting married. But those are rare. And you have to accept that reality.
That being said, there is a chance that you will get her back and become one of those rare high school sweethearts.
How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back in High School.
The basic principles of getting her back are the same as mentioned in the main guide to win your ex girlfriend back. However, since you are in high school, you will face a little difficulty during the no contact period(Step 2 of the guide). Here are a few tips to consider that will increase your chances.
1. If you are in the same class, apply the no contact rule as stated in the guide. Do not talk to her unless it’s absolutely necessary. Even if she comes to talk to you, stay calm and treat her like she is an acquaintance you are in good terms with.
2. Concentrate on yourself and do things that you enjoy. Participate in extra curricular activities and meet new girls. Start hanging out with more girls and make friends with them. Your ex will soon find out that you are making new friends and will probably get jealous.
3. Remember to not do anything that might show your ex that you are still obsessed about her and want to be with her. Read the first step of this article for more details on this.
4. If you and your ex have common friends, it’s time to stay away from them for a while. It might be hard, but you can always make new friends and find new people to hang out with. I am not saying you should break friendship with them, all I am saying that you should stay away till the time you are comfortable talking about your ex and hanging out with her. (Till no contact period ends)
5.Do not participate in the high school gossip. People will talk about you two breaking up. Don’t let it affect you and don’t participate in the discussion.
The key to getting her back, even in high school is to focus on yourself. The basics of attraction remain the same no matter if you are teenager or in your fifties. If you work on yourself and become a confident and attractive person, a person who is happy with himself, she will come back to you. Again, read this article, for more detailed step by step guide to win her back.
Hey, I need help badly
I’ve read the how to get your girlfriend back, how to get your girlfriend back if she has a boyfriend, and the one for being in high school
But my situation is quite a bit different, here’s how.
me and my girlfriend were together for 4 1/2 months. It was a great relationship and we both loved each other very much. When she left me I didn’t do the “no contact” thing until she blocked me on Facebook. After a week I tried talking to her but she only said we could be friends. I of course messed it up, and she said I had to move on and that I wouldn’t want her anymore. I told her I still wanted her more than anything. And she wouldn’t hear it. After a few weeks of forced no contact she got with someone else. I found out because I saw them holding hands. I tried talking to her in a more understandable tone because I had already wrote her a letter for wanting to win her back before she got with the other Guy. But then she completely cut contact with me and we haven’t spoken since. About 3 weeks ago that happened and since then, I’ve been trying to figure out who he is and what they’re like together. I found out he was her ex boyfriend from freshman year and they broke because he had to move. He was apparantly her first love.
I am at the point where I think its hopeless. Have I messed up too much? Or is there still a chance I can have her back?
Well, you never really applied no contact for a full month, so I’ll say there is still a chance. I’ll recommend you start no contact starting now till the end of March and don’t try to figure out what she is doing or about her new relationship. Then contact her after that. If at that time, her reactions are the same, then it’s time to move on.
This same thing actually happened to me me and my gf dated for about 1 month and then she accused me of lying and we got into a big fight and she broke up with me I actually didn’t do the no contact thing for a month is there any chance I can save my relationship. I really want her back she’s a really awesome girl and idk of I can see her with any other guy. I probably should mention I wrote her a lot of texts I shouldn’t have and wrote he a love letter.
Any advice
Hey
so me and my ex girlfriend broke up because I didn’t trust her and she’s seeing someone else
what do I do and do I have a chance at getting her back
Read this article.
Well…I did read it,but I’m already doing the no-contact rule
do I still have a chance though???
Yes, you do.
Look I need help me and my ex broke up we been together for a year and 2 months … She broke up with me Cuz she thought I cheated we broke up for 2 weeks and 5 days but I wrote her letter saying the truth and no I didnt cheat that’s a waste of my time then we got back for 3 days or so then she said she was confused Cuz she started talking to this other guy when we had broke up now shes with him and idk what to do can u help me with this ?
Whatever you do, don’t act needy at this point. If she chooses the other guy, just accept her decision and apply no contact.
Thank You…and it’s working to
thank you so much…I appreciate it
You’re welcome Danny.
could you help me lol so me and my gf went out for 6 months and it was great but one day she broke up with me then a week later she begged for me to take her back. i did and then a rumor that i cheated on her spread through our school btw im a sophmore and she broke up with me again and say a month went by and this girl asked me out and i wanted to call and ask if there was anything still between us and i did and she already had another boyfriend it tore me apart but say another month went by and i wasnt happy and i tried to get back with her and she said that she was with someone else and that she was sorry and i fucked up lol i went slightly crazy i didnt beg but i was very persistent and she cried and stuff then asked me to leave her alone and i did and i still want to be with her and idk what to do its been a few days since then…do i still have a chance with her and shes been with him for idk 25 days.
Yes, you do. Follow the advise in the article.
should i do it before summer in 6 weeks or wait till next year? because the no contact period wont quite fit in i dont think
Well me and my ex was together for about a year, we met through a panto we did not Christmas gone but the Christmas before, I practically lived at hers, we did everything together, we was the “perfect couple, after we broke up we still met for abit until we both went on holiday in the summer and both went our separate ways, she has been seeing more lads since me and I have seen some girls but none have worked out, her mum doesn’t exactly think the best of me because whenever she messed up she Blaim it on me to her mum,none of her friends like me and that was partly why we broke up, about a month ago we argued and we didn’t speak until the other week we arranged to meet, I went hers and then we went cinema, we ended up kissing and then we spoke about were we went wrong, we laughed and she kept wanting to go through my messages so I let her, on the way home her mum said “see you again” wich is a good sign, what do I do from now on, not got a clue what to do…?
Contact her again in a week.
So me and this girl went out for a month and a half and all of the sudden she tells me she is not really into dating at the moment. I wanted to talk things out with her but she kept avoiding me and all of the sudden, my friend tells.me she has no more feelings for me. I still love her and really want her back. Please help
hey Kevin,
So me and my girlfriend of 2 and a half years broke up 2 months ago after we had a argument and I lost my temper. She got with her lyk guy best friendtwo weeks after we broke up.
So I have read your guide and have applied no contact for over a month. S She then talked to me saying t was to hard us not talking and wants to still be friends, so naturally I agreed and we are lyk the best friends we were when we went out. While we were hanging out I totally broke down crying and told her I still loved her and blah blah blah… but thing is she told me she still loves me too. So we spent over and hour just talking and she said that she would go back to me if she could, but she doesn’t wanna brak her new bf* heart. I told her that I am willing to wait for her. Just this week we were talking at our usual meeting spot and after awhile the conversation lead back towards us. She told me how she wants to be with me again but cos of her new boyfriend we cant (she also stated “It would be so much better if he broke up with me”)
SO Kevin I know she still has feelings for me, so what do I do? Do I remain her friend and just wait for her, Go no contact again and make her want me back in her life or What?
Remain friends for a month (or two) and keep having fun with her. Don’t push her into breaking up with him. Let it be her idea. If she doesn’t break up in two months, then tell her that you need commitment from her or you will move on. If she chooses the other guy, then you should move on.
Hey it’s me Michael I don’t know if you got my other comment but anyways my girlfriend broke up with me (we were dating for a month now almost two months)and I was to sad to ask why she broke up with mei just walked away,but other people tell me because she said she wasn’t ready for a relationship others say I bored her I just don’t know what to believe. So our relationship started off wired we just saw each other and liked each other but we didn’t know at first till I asked her if she liked me she said yes and I was happy so we talked but not a lot we didn’t really get to be friends at all or get to know each other so much instead we Just stared dating fast and I think that’s what made the relationship akward because we didn’t know so much about each other but we still talked and did everthing a normal couple would do but now I it’s over.
But anyways This what I was thinking of, I already let a whole week pass with out talking so now when we go back to school I was thinking of telling her if she what’s to start over fresh and when I mean fresh I mean like what if started the right way as friends instead of just going out agian without know to much about each other the way we did when we first met so is this a good idea or not? Please answer this question on this website cause I can’t get In my email
Hey Michael,
Don’t tell her to start over fresh, it will make your intentions to get back clear and she will put up a wall. Instead, just start treating her as a friend. Read this guide and follow it.
Hey man this is a great guide but I have some flaws we just fell for each other and were in love for a month I messed up quite a lot and had bad reactions and got jelaious she still loves me but it’s defiantly friend zone. Even though we made mad love she had a boy friend before me 4 years actually.. That up side to this is he was an asshole an they broke up 4 times and she back with him now. She just fell back in love with him and after prom we got into a argument so she was pissed all of the next day we texted I said sorry and it almost got better but then I told her to make a decision and later that night she said she was better off with bad boyfriend, and told me I’m sorry you couldn’t make me feel as happy as Austen, I know my Flaws and know exacly what do to if I date her again but getting her back is gonna be immposible i FaceTimed her and she and we were talking well and her eat friend just dissed her because she’s back with bad boyfriend so I’m not the only one who is mad about it, the pros of this is he’s an asshole but makes her feel a certain way that I couldn’t and I asked her how long do you all plan to be together and she said footer ever I was pissed and ignoring her I feel like will make her just forget and not have any feelings at all and honestly I was a rebound that had a good chance and Meased it up please help…
Hey Jacob,
I don’t think your flaws had anything to do with her breaking up with you. I think she never got over her ex and you were probably a rebound. I’ll recommend you don’t waste any more time with her and try to move on.
Me and my girlfriend of 1 year and 9 months just broke up a week ago. I messed up and begged and pleaded for her back for like 3 days then I stopped talking to her less and less and today I heard she lied to me in our relationship about something so I asked her about it and she got so mad that I would even think to believe that and she said she misses the old me, I know she loves me a lot still and isn’t looking for another relationship soon and I also love her so much all I want is her back i am trying to use no contact rule but I don’t want her to think I don’t care anymore because that is some of why she broke up with me.. She has been talking to her guy friends a lot also after the break up What should I do? (I am really close with her family)
You can just tell her you need some space and time to deal with the breakup. This way, she will know you still care.
so um me and my girlfriend went out for 7 months but around the 4th month i started to get jealous of this other guy she talked to we worked it out for a while but after a while it became a problem of jealousy for not only me but her to and for a little while i ended up giving her the cold shoulder and she broke up with me yesterday after I walked out on her i told her i still loved her and she told me she still loved me but today i couldnt resist the urge and I told her that i couldnt stop thinking about her but im afraid she might go out with another guy what should I do?
btw i agreed to being friends with her right after she broke up with me do you think i still have a chance?
You should follow the advice in the article.
Alright I need help. Me and my girlfriend were together for a year and a half. She broke up with me last week out of the blue “I’m done”. “Too stressfull”. “I’m better off by myself”. I haven’t really done the no contact until today because we’ve broken up for similar reasons in the past and I’ve always gotten her back a day or 2 later by telling her how much I love her/care for her. This time it’s worse because she won’t hear any of that and won’t talk to me at all pretty much. I’ve tried calling and texting her and I get nothing. She blocked me on Facebook today for messaging her I’m assuming. What do I do to get her back fast? Summer is coming up and I won’t see her much if I don’t get her back. Last day of school is May 29th. Help please!!
Also part of my other comment… She still parks next to me in the mornings before school. Is this a good sign???
Not necessarily.
Don’t try to rush things. Apply no contact. Follow the advice in the article.
Hi there my name is Mumu and I need your help, me and my girlfriend were together for almost a year,6months together and about 6months long distance ,she wanted to see me every two months in that long distance relationship and I even flew her once but I couldn’t able to do it when she had her next vacation ,and then she cheated on me ,although she was honest and told me everything, she told me that she was lonely and she was was just using the other guy just to fulfill her emotional needs and she was very sorry and won’t do it, but that never ended right there, she started liking Him and now loving him and now pretty much he replaced me, all this time she told me she don’t know what she is doing and she doesn’t know what to do, she tried to broke up with me but we still haven’t there is still strings attached , but she is ignoring me and not asking me questions like she used to,but I am sure she still love me and I forgave her then and I will forgive her now ,cause it’s not just Her fault.
Hey,
It is her fault. Whatever her reason for cheating was, she still made a decision to cheat. And it was the wrong thing to do.
My name is Adrian and me and my girlfriend were together for a year. I made a mistake of trying to take a break from her for too long, I ended up not talking to her for a month and when I came back she told me we were over and she doesn’t love me anymore. I already messed up on your steps of no contact. I’ve begged her and written her poems of how much I loved her and as you said. It made things worse. She said there’s already somebody else special that she’s met. She posts how she’s so excited to see this guy on Facebook. Even if she no longer loves me and that she may be falling for another guy. Is there still a chance?
Yes, follow the advice in the article.
Hay Kevin I was dating this girl for a year and 8months we were best friends ever since 8grade we would always argue but we would make up and work harder on whatever we needed to fix I had some anger problems so it add in on the fighting we broke up and a couple days later she like a guy so quick that she would talk to after we fight but he don’t like her I’m trying so hard I know everyone might think love for us is not real but it is please …help me I don’t wana lose my best friend
Follow the advice in the article Santos.
so I’ve been dating this girl for about 2 months in high school and we recently broke up. The first month she wasn’t into holding hands, talking deep or anything sentimental which gave me the mentality not to do anything even though she said she wasn’t like that anymore. I told her I don’t really feel like we’re in a relationship all we do is talk like friends. I’m graduating but she isn’t and she’s going away for 5 weeks so she decided to end it. how do I get her back with her making the initial contact?
You can’t make her make the initial contact. You should make the contact after NC if you want her back.
Hey Kevin,
So me and my ex broke up a couple of months ago we were together for about three and 1/2 months and I did the no contact thing but only for about three weeks we talked on the phone then and she brought up being friends cuz we were friends before the relationship and I wanted to stay either since she broke up with me but I just stuck it out as a friend trying to do what I did before but it doesn’t seem to be working and lately she’s been fussing with me for no reason at all. Is there any advise u can give me to get her back.
I need help…
So my girlfriend and i went out for six months and then we broke up. But we kept on talking and kept on having sex until one day she just ended it. We kept on talking off and on and one night we got in a fight and just ended it. Then the next night she texted me asking if we could talk again and I said yes. But that same night I was asked to go to a Sounders game with one of her girlfriends who I have been very close since before my exgirlfriend and I started dating. (Nothing ever occurred between us) So I go to the Sounders game and the next Monday rolls around and after school I returned something to her that she left at my house and we talked for a bit and I apologized because she claimed to be very hurt even though she knew that her friend and I have always been close. So I then asked if her if we could still have that talk and the next day we did and ended up having sex. (On Tuesday) So then we hang out on Thursday and it’s like everything is back to normal even though she says that we still aren’t together. Then later that night she texts me and says that she talked with her best friend and decided that she needed time to think so I left her alone. Then the next night she gets drunk and makes out with one of my friends and I then find out that she had done it before also the night before I went to the Sounders game with the same guy. She says that she feels bad but at the same time we weren’t together so I cant be mad. THEN the Saturday night we’re at a party and I end up staying the night st her house and we have sex and the next morning I go home being told that she will come over later so that we can talk but she just blows me off and I leave her several texts and about five calls trying to figure out whats going on. The next day I don’t contact her until I remember she leaves for a trip the next day and so I ask to see her but she is with her friends and is too busy to see me. So she is gone four days and Saturday, the day after she got back, she texts me and we talk for a while and later that night I go to a party and get drunk and fucking text her saying that I miss her and she doesnt respond. Later on when I’ve sobered up some I text her and apologize and around 12:30 in the morning she texts me and bitches me out but then asks me if she can see me so I say sure and she picks me up and we hang out for a while. The next day she texts me and we talk for a while without mentioning our relationship once. The next day we hang out after school and talk a little about our relationship but I have to leave for basketball so we can’t finish it. The next day I text her asking if we can finish our talk the next day but her phone breaks so she can’t reply (it actually did break she showed it to me. It was fucking wrecked) but she is hanging out with one of her friends so I text them asking them to ask my ex if she wants to have breakfest and they say “no she’s busy” so I respond and I’m polite about it and say “thank you for asking I appreciate it” and so later that night she texts me on her mom’s phone and we talk for a bit and make a joke about us hanging out and she says that it always turns into sex and I say since we’ve stopped dating I haven’t forced anything upon you and the day before when I started to try something and she rejected me I was respectful of that and stopped. Then she went on to say that I send her too many texts when I literally do not at all and the last thing time I had done that was that Sunday after we had sex. I didn’t talk to her today besides to tell her something funny that happened between my basketball coach and I involving her. I want her back but after everything that has happened I don’t know what to do it think. help please!!
Dude,dont worry shes uour if she still hangs out with you this much even after the relationship.then it clearly shows that she has still dealings for you
Ok dude you might like her for her but she is only interested in your body obviously.. I mean if she is all like ‘I don’t want a relationship with you’ but she is having sex with you almost every time you see her.. is she obviously using you for sex and for pleasure.. seriously just find some other girl and don’t talk to her for a long time and I mean a long time
Wow that is a paragraph like damn dude you are the most craziest person I have ever read the most craziest thing that you have to say to your ex at school for the clowns and what does it mean when you get a dinars and what they say before he left his first day at work and pics of my mind is a big deal with water and gold at both of the most trusted referee to make your own project for the clowns and what does your mom and what does your ex wants you to say to make your own company and pics of my face in the most craziest person who has been a full time job of the most popular stories about raping and what to make your own project for yourself and what does it mean when your done with water? Hope this helped you and good luck oh and by the way ugly shirt and what do you get the most craziest thing they tell you after I was famous for the clowns in my mind and pics of my life with you after we get a dinars to make a girl out of my face
Thanks for your time
How are the cats in my mind
Hey its been about 2 weeks since me and my girlfriend broke up and its been rough all I have been thinking about is how can I get her back. I’m in high school and me and my girlfriend are probably going to have a lot of classes together and I don’t know what to expect. When we broke up I asked her if it was something I did and she said no and that she does not know why she lost interest in me. I have been trying to work on my appearance and i read your article. I am in the no contact period right now. Like 3 days after she vroke with me she texted me and asked how i was doing and I was stupid and told her that it might take me a while to get over her but i ended the text by saying that this break up opens a lot of doors for me and that i was going to be pretty busy coming up. After I said that i read your article and thats when I started the no contact period…I was wondering what I should do next? because I really want her back… school starts later this month and I do not know what to do… I really need your help I need to know what to do next…thank you
Hi my names Tyrell. So I’ve been dating this girl, who I’ve wanted since the first time I’ve seen her, for about 9 months. Our relationship was great, we got along well, we’re happy together, ya we had a fight every now and then, but what relationship doesn’t? Also, I have a problem of getting jealous easily, but I’ve worked on it and I’m 10x better. Recently, I had to move an additional 3.5 hours away from her (we lived 1 hour away prior) to play a sport. We both agreed to make it work because we’ve had a distance relationship anyways. Now, only 1 week into me being gone, she says that “this is a lot harder than I thought it was going to be, we should take a break because I have to figure out what I want” but yet she still texts me every day and we talk on the phone lots, and we still say “I love you” and stuff like that. What does this mean? And I would really appreciate your help on how to convince her that we can still make this relationship work. My parents and family love her and they will be coming down to see me a lot and she can go with them, but this whole idea of a break makes me so sad. Please help me Kevin. (Btw, she still tells me she wants to come see me and watch me play my sport)
Hey Kevin I like all your advice on the article but I was thinking that some of it isn’t that related to my situation but maybe you can still help me som my ex we where together for like 6 months or so we each other during the summer I met her during school. I’d go to her house constantly to hang out with her till we started doing it. Then we liked each other even more and got together. But I lied to her so much about things that she stopped trusting me like she used to btw she let me move in with her. She also started talking to some guy she like and I was really jelo about this till I started over reacting and we started having constant arguements. Right now she cut me off and stopped talking to me cuzz she hates me. I as we’ll stopped talking to her to give her space but I write her a big letter apologizing and thanking her for the good times we had and mentioned another chance even bout her a teddy bear with and her fav candy to go with. She then wrote me a letter and left it in my room thanking me for the gift but saying it wasn’t going to change anything about me so I m still heart broken and it’s been awkward she also made me feel bad for some reason I don’t want to mention but then asked why I’m crying and u didn’t answer so she said ok ignore me then later that night she message me saying sorry for being stupid with you I’m sorry I ignored it for a bit till I opened it and answered her the next day but still I’ve been thinking on what’s going to happen will she give me another chance if I give her time? Should I still buy her little gifts? What can I do Kevin what should I do?? Please help me out her bro
Heyyy..can u help me out??.we’ve dated only about 2 week…n she broke up with me sayinggg…it was becuz other ppl around her convince her tooo..but I’m not reallt sure if tht is trueee..she won’t tell me anything but tht….I asked her for another chances but she said noo..soo I stop texting/talking to her for about a month…I only text..only if she text me first…..do you think if I give it time…I still might have a chance??
Hi, I have very important question for you..
I broke up with my girl friend about a month ago and I have read your article about 2 weeks ago. However, i really want to know if I have a chance at this point.
My girlfriend and I were hanging out since last year and became very close friends this semester. Then she started to like me first. I knew that she liked me for about two weeks before we start dating because the way how she acted was just telling me that she wanted me. Actually, she even talked to her best friends about her feeling towards me. Moreover, she gave me many hints to ask her out in our conversation. So, when I was sure about my feeling towards her, I asked her out and she said yes. She even told me that she was really happy when I asked her out. But a WEEK after, she told me that she does not feel the same anymore.
I was bumped out since I did not expect that my first love would end up this quickly. I dated some girls before her but that was because they asked me out. I had no feeling toward them but I dated them because I did not want to hurt their feelings. The one who I broke up with… she is the first one who I dated for liking her as a person..
After we break up, she wanted to talk to me to tell me that she does not like me anymore. So I did not talk to her for two weeks. Then, I contacted her to talk and she agreed. We talked about our relationship and she wanted me to be her friend again and think about the relationship later. I thought things will be fine. But she seemed like avoiding me after all. Thus, I ask her to have another conversation and she also agreed again. At this time, my friend told me why she wanted to break up with me. The reason was that she thought that I was going far in the first week. But, this does not make any sense since I did not even kissed her or anything like that. I was waiting until the end of first week of our relationship to kiss her since I did not want her to feel pressure. However, when I was talking to her, I apologized her anyway, about the thing that I did which made her feel pressure. Then she smiled and held my hand and said let’s be friends again and think about the relationship later. So I thought everything was going all right for the second time.
I gave her a ticket to the school dance to go there with me as a friend and she accepted it. But the night before the dance, she told me that she cannot come because she was going to hang to with her friend. So my friend asked my ex’s friend what she is going to do with my ex at that night and she told my friend that my ex told her that my ex got a free ticket to the dance.
I was so mad and disappointed at her that I personally thought to myself to stop the feeling towards her but that did not work out.
The other day, she said sorry… so I gave her another chance to meet up but it also did not work out well. Then again, she thought that I was mad at her and asked me how I feel about her. We had a conversation about our relationship then we decided to be friends again. This happened in the beginning of this week. But the problem now, is that she started avoiding me again.
I has been a month since I broke up with my girlfriend. I tried my best to move on by hanging out with other girls and stuff… But every time, I cannot stop thinking about her… Now, she likes someone but the thing is that he is my close friend and he does not want to date her. He even helped me out with her. He asked her some questions why she wanted to break up with me and all… He knows that she likes him but he does not want her which makes me very jealous haha
I wrote main parts of story of my relationship here…
Do you think there is still a chance?
What should I do at this point?
I really need serious help.
Hey umm I need a little help here.You see my ex blocked me on everything, she blocked me on every type of social media and we dated for 15 months.Things were great until she went to the Philippines during summer holidays and we broke up a day before.She had fallen in love with someone else two days after we broke up,its been 3 and a half weeks after our breakup and she told her friend that she felt that she was a bitch for doing all that to me and she said that she was done with boys and relationships and she just wants to be around her friends and family and not think about us for now.And when we were together, I told her that I’m alright with the fact that she couldn’t go out with me coz I always loved how she loves her family and always puts her family first.I was just wondering what could I do to get her back?Should I do anything different compare to the suggested ideas on the article?
Ohh and she is alright with the fact of being friends and being close friends but she wants me to give her time but I waited a year to go out with her,I waited the whole summer for her to come back,but she just wants to be a teenager and not think about this right now and ofc I’m crazy enough to make her a surprise sweet 16 bday party which is on 10th July ,months from now but I wanted her to fall in love with me again.And I see her being lonely and sad since we are in the same homeroom so should I go up to her and try to cheer her up or something else?And I did buy her gifts coz she was away so I wanted to surprise her,so what should I do with them?
And this is our third time breaking up
And she told my best friend that I shouldn’t be so sad or act emo and she gets sad bout it,does that mean she secretly cares bout me and shouldn’t I do something to make her realise that she still does love me maybe deep inside she still does.And another information is that when she was in the Philippines during summer,she cried coz she really missed me.
Please read and help!
So me and my ex are in the 11th grade and we dated for a little over a year and loved each other like crazy. I broke with her cause I wasn’t thinking right. I started talking to a new girl but then slowly stopped cause I missed her, this was about a month after we broke up. Now she is talking (not dating but close) to another guy. This tore me up even more and I didn’t really talk to her for 4 days while they was talking and then the 5th day she posted on twitter all this stuff about she should be alone forever and blah blah. So I texted her you alright and we talked I bit I didn’t beg her to be back with me but I told her that I was pretty torn up and in sorry and all this. But the next day (6th day the day I’m writing this) she is still talking and seems happy with him. Should I still apply the 30 day no contact rule? Should I hangout with other girls? But if they stop talking in less than 30 days should I talk to her? Or of they still are should I talk to her? Please help I would it would be highly appreciated!
Hey, I just want help, please. I just came across this article, and I want to know how to get this girl to like me, I couldn’t find any other sites to ask this question. I’ve tried everything in the book, and it just won’t work. She’s not going out with anyone. I love her so badly, but I just don’t know what to say. I REALLY don’t want to say anything weird.
So my ex said she had to move on because I was hurting her to much & I wasn’t there for her but she said we can be bestfriends & I said can we see in the future & she said idk should I move on or no & she already has a boyfriend & I still Want to be with her she said she doesn’t want to go but she has to what do I do I want to be with her
Hey my girlfriend and I broke up. Her dad cheated on her mom for two years and they found out this summer. She’s been depressed and I understand. So first broke up with me. After two days she came back. Now about a week ago she broke up with me again saying that she needed to be alone. That same night she kept on kissing me and hugging me and holding hands and saying she would come back. Yesterday I texted her to see how she was doing ( out of mind, out of sight). And we had a pretty good conversation. Then after a couple of hours she said to forget about her coming back and to live my life. I didnt understand and I insisted on her telling me. So she told me that she loved me and I made her happy but that she didn’t feel a click. I think she’s using it as an excuse. Idk what to do. Idk if this one month things applies to this. I miss her like crazy and her mom told me she’d come around. Idk what to do. I want her and need her back. Please help.
Hey so me and my girlfriend where togther for about almost 3 months I truly do love her. And we broke up 2 days ago. What happen was is that she said she was going to move to Georgia with some famity and then she told me that the truth is she likes another guy and that she is not moving. Well She tried contacting me last night through txt saying she needed to explain something. I just ignored her txt. Today is day 2 of no contact I deleted her off of everything of course I wrote her number down and saved it away but her pictures and everything I deleted. I do miss her and I think what if she dose move during the no contact? and what if she dose have a new man? What if this no contact backfires on me and she wanted to explain things and I just blew her off???
My ex broke up with me cause I change my personality when I’m around my guy friends and she dosnt like tht about me. I read every, but I’ve been oit of this relationship for almost a year now. Wat should I do?
Hey.. My ex broke up with me about a month ago and she said the reason was because she felt she wasn’t ready and scared of me and I understood because she was young and I was about a year older than her with a lot more experience (she did say that if i could wait maybe she would be back around).. so I started hanging out with this other girl and I noticed that she wanted to hang out with me more and more so I thought ‘yay this is working’ but then the next day when I walked by her during lunch I saw her flirting with another guy and it tore me apart.. I tried to talk to her but she said ‘well you moved on so I will too’ she thought that I was trying to date the new girl I met.. and when I tried to explain that I still loved her and wanted to be with her she just thought I was coming off as desperate.. What do I do?!?
Hey,
I just broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years and 9 months a week ago. A month before the break up I asked her if she wanted a break for a month since I see she needed it. Right after she agreed she has decided to break up with me. I’ve started no contact since 3 days ago. I’m one class with her and she seems happy all the time, although I notice a slight change. And since I’m one class of 8, it’s very difficult to stay out of contact. Sometimes she still talk to me, and she’s the one who initiates. When we broke up she told me that she didn’t love me anymore. She did say that she’s couldn’t resume the relationship, at least not then. I know the reason of my break up, no cheating involved. Do you think I still have a chance? And any advice on no contact, since it’s really difficult.
Thanks
so i need help
ok so well my ex broke up with me a couple of years back and we haven’t talked for a while. now were in high school and she has been going out with this other guy for almost 2 years. but she started to talk to me after that time period and shes still with the guy. she tells me to walk her to class and stuff and she talks to me about how rude and mean and disrespectfull her boyfriend is to her. then she told me that she would go back out with me, but she has a boyfriend. i dont want to be the reason why they break up but then again i really like her and i dont know what to do
Hello
Before I start, I am a senior in high school who is 18 and my ex girlfriend is 18 as well, now I know high school couples don’t last long and I should move on and I understand that but I honestly feel this break up was miss communication and I think it was something special there.
We dated for 7 months and she broke up with me 3 days ago which sucked because it was a text message (though i asked her with text message if she was trying to break up with me) saying I’m a great guy and she loves me so much but she doesn’t see a future with me, doesn’t feel happy as she used to be, can’t go to the same college I want to go to and says it doesn’t feel right because she didn’t tell her parents we were dating we should just became friends and move on to different people.
By reaction when we broke up, I broke the first rule and starting begging her to change her mind and telling her how bad i feel or how it is without her telling her i can change my faults for off and on for like that day and the day after next to give her time to think. But begging her to give me another chance just to have her replying saying she still loves me and always have but she can’t give me more another chances or any redos (note we never broke up before and idk what she means by anymore chances instead of another).
I spent a couple days pleading with her to change her mind which she continued to reply with hearts until she just stopped texting me yesterday when i tried to accept her offer of becoming friends.
When we are close at lunch, she seems to look like everything is cool, her friends just stare at me and look away and she just doesn’t talk or look at me at all yesterday. I know she still cares for me and thats why I’m letting go of my pride to ask you for advice no matter how embarrassing or how naive I look. I’m willing to give this no contact rule a chance but if my situation is too bad please tell me before i ruin things even more.
If this wasn’t enough information to give me some specific advice fitting my situation please ask for more and I’ll will tell you because I’m actually serious about winning her back not revenge or pay back in anyway. But if its just to move on just tell me so I don’t waste anymore time trying to win her back.
P.S. Forgive my bad grammar and spelling in this message with me still being emotional and not focused.
Me and my ex broke up about 4 months ago and were never together for more than a week but the time I had with her in that week was still great. Since then she has been out with My Best Friend twice and now likes someone else. He are still good friends even though she apparently hates me. Is it to late to start following these guides or is there no point now.
I need help desperately, My girlfriend broke up with me last week I was devastated. I really want her back I have tried the no contact but in the end I screwed it up, I told her that I still had feelings for her and I agreed on being friends. But I just want her back so much. Is there any hope for me? And what can I do now to earn her back? Please help thanks
my girlfriend broke up with me because she found out that i called this other girl “hot” & i know thats messed up from my part & its been two weeks since we broke up and i haven’t even talked to her, im thinking of apologizing for what i did, but i dont know exactly what to say. and also the day we broke up, i asked her for a chance and she said that she doesnt want to be hurt again, but i still feel like i need to talk to her again in private
Hey,
My girlfriend and I just broke up. This isn’t the first or second or ether 3 time. We broke up for the fourth time and she just said we are to much different. We dated for 3 1/2 months. Is there still a chance and if so, what do I have to do to get her back.
Hey
My girl broke up with me and I’ve been having a head time since then. I try to talk to her and things like that but she’s gets annoyed when I do things like that. We haven’t been together for like two weeks I think and I still want her back. My friend told me to wait junior year to see what happens an I’m not sure if that would work, I asked could we be friends and told me no so that make me feel even more uneasy. I have a lot belief that she’s going to take me back but she keeps telling me that I can’t have anymore chances with her so that was on my mind a lot. During my relationship I know that I fucked up a lot with her and I had so many regrets, it drove me mad. I still I want her back either way but she doesn’t believe me that I changed at all, I understood that I messed up a lot and I truly hated it. But the main reason she broke up with me was because we had a lot of arguments and I didn’t like them either but when we did she told me that it made her unhappy and that made me feel worse. So do think there’s a chance that I can get back with my ex?
Me and my girlfriend were together for almost a year. 11 months and she broke up with me right around the time of her birthday in January and our 1 year would’ve been on 2/16/16. We were an amazing couple. I did everything for her. Brought her to school. Picked her up from practice and we would do everything together. I even stuck by her side when she went away for a full 3 months. The whole summer. Never once in our relationship did I once talk to another girl because I always felt that if I did they would want to make a move on me or something and I never wanted to hurt her and I promised myself I never would because I saw the way my mom was hurt by her ex and she was hurt for a long time. But back to the relationship, It’s my senior year and it was going amazing. I play football and she was there for me every game. We went 14-1 and the last game really hurt but she was there for me and I love her so much for that. But after football season things got a little funky. She started hanging with a girl from her softball team and they would go to places like the boys baseball tryouts. Like in the back of my mind I knew that was a little fishy but that didn’t change my love for her. Over the winter break she got grounded the whole 2 weeks and I couldn’t see her at all but I would still go there some nights because she missed me so much and just wanted a hug and me being the good boyfriend I was there for her. Something went on when her sisters older boyfriend when he went to her house and was trying to touch her. I was about 2 hours away because I was at my friends house and it was 3 am she was calling me so I got in the car and went there and picked her up. It was traumatizing for her and I was there for her literally every day because I loved her so much and would be there for forever. A couple weeks went by and I started to notice that’s he would talk to this kid from my team. He didn’t start but he was in her grade and I guess they were friends. I was always protective of her from other guys because it was my natural instinct. Like I wouldn’t beat them up or anything lol but like we are together and you don’t really talk to others guys like that. One day after a perfect day of hanging with her she didn’t get out of the car and she said we needed to talk. She said that when I go away to college everything is going to change and I might find someone better than her and for me I obviously would never leave her. I loved her since the first day she came to my school from up north. But she said that this kid that I was talking about earlier he would be there for her like a big brother and protect her. The first thought that came to my mind was “WTF”. I didn’t say that to her but I talked to her hugged her and comforted her as she went on about wanting to take away the title of boyfriend girlfriend and that’s when I kinda knew that she was talking talking to him. When I got home she said that we should take a break so she can find herself and her happiness. The next day at school she was hugging the kid. I didn’t know but I guess she was telling people we broke up and she never told me. My friend talked to her and she said that she had feelings for the kid. This definitely was like a hot knife going right into my heart. I didn’t eat. I wouldn’t come to school sometimes because I couldn’t see the girl I was in love with for almost a year just fuck with another guy. I did the no contact for a good week and it worked. I felt better and I wasn’t hurting as bad but then one day she caught me in the hallway and said that she misses me and still loves me and thinks that everything is gonna go back to normal in about a week. Me being the stupid love struck boy I gave in. We texted and talked. I gave her a ride home one day cause she said she got into a little argument so I was just being civil and when I got to her house she didn’t want to get out of my car. She layer across my lap and sat there and was just talking about how she’s sorry and is selfish for doing it so I tried to change the subject by getting out of the car and bringing her to her door. She continued to hug me and kiss my cheeks and pinching my butt because that was always her thing lol. But I gave In I forgave her and I hugged her back. Hard long hugs with thousands of emotions going through both of our heads. I literally tried to leave 8 times and every time I would walk away from the doorstep and get to my car she would come up behind me and jump on my back and hug me so I hugged her back because it just felt right. But as a couple days went by she said that she was going to hang out with him and if it went bad or whatever she would cut him off and it didn’t… She told me she was sorry and she couldn’t hurt me anymore. I said I forgave her but she couldn’t handle the pain of seeing me hurt I guess. So now I’m back to where I was in the beginning kind of. Reading articles like these make me feel so much better. She told me she’s moving back up north because she wants to go back home. Her dad is sick in the hospital and I was there for her even when she broke up with me because I still loved her and cared for her. I guess it’s just confusing because she would still tell me she loves me and cares about me but she talks to this guy and hangs out with him and she says they’re only friends. The reason she said she broke up with me was because I was being cold to her after football season because of the loss and I sure as he’ll wasn’t. But I really don’t know how to handle this situation anymore but I did start no contact again but I don’t know I love her but she’s still going to be hugging this boy In school and everything and it just hurts to see and feel that it does. I’d rather be stabbed in the leg than have my heart messed with. I know that this is crazy long and you might not even read it but please do because I think it’s better to hear from people that have actually gone through something like this rater than friends wanting me to beat him up for messing with the girl I love lol but I’m not gonna do that. Btw this guy is so unattractive like he’s 6’2 250 and he has no chin and he’s like super fat and she was making fun of him the day I went to her house but I’m totally opposite. I’m a muscular guy with a big chest and arms but I never really had a six pack but it basically is one but that just isn’t her and I don’t get it but it’s her decision I guess and life has to go on
Thank you for reading this huge message
Wow. That’s touching. And I thought my break up was bad. Did you have any break ups before your senior year? Because I’m struggling with accepting that she’s gone and it’s hard to picture anyone as amazing as she was.
I don’t no what to do , seens she told me that she wanted to breakup I hav not been in skool .so when I go to skool what should I do (i.e behavior,should I talk to her and tell her that what’s not going in this relationship and if she can give it a try again
Hey Kevin,
So I was with my gf for almost two months and everything was awesome. We went on one date a week ago were we kissed for the first time and I started to really get the feeling were I thought we were something special. However, one week later, she broke up with me, and she said that she didn’t feel the same enthusiasm and attraction towards me as she did before, and that she wanted to like me and she wished she could control her feelings but she couldn’t. I texted her a bit when this breakup happened, but I didn’t do it enough to seem desperate or anything. This has also happened one week before summer vacation, and I plan on doing no contact until about August. Do you think I still have a chance with her?
Hey Kevin,
So my girlfriend and my self dated for about 5 months and she broke up with me because she had feelings for someone else as well, she said she wants time to know who her self is. But what I’m concerned about during that time she will forget about me. She said that she preferred it better when we where friends. The day before she broke up with me, we where happy as anything an the next day she just got all sad and broke up. Everyone has told me she needs you but I’m having a hard time trying to believe that. Do I still have a good chance getting her back before she moves on with someone else
I need help on this please, on our relationship, It’s a little bit different. It has been 3 months and then my GF broke up with me, but not completely, she asked if we can be just friends, so I said yes. What should I do?
My ex broke up with with me a week ago because she lost connection and every thing I did annoyed her we dated for a month but I still have feelings for her we still talk what should I do start the no contact ?
My girlfriend want to break up,she said that having a boyfriend is distracting her.But im sure its because i don’t reached her expectations,im not good at relationship and yea she told her friends that i just suck at relationship..i still love her what will i do?
Hey so me and my girlfriend dated for 3-4 months, the relationship seemed wonderful. But one day something just switched in her head and she felt like it wasn’t going to workout anymore. So in other words she lost interest and her flame died down. She still says she “loves” me but in a different way then we use to love each other. The first couple days I broke a couple contact rules because of the hurt, like contacting her and honestly being desperate. Right now she has a really close guy friend but I believe she’s going to use him as a rebound relationship soon. Should I start no contact and give it a chance?
Help
I broke up with my girlfriend 8 and a half months ago after 9 months of dating. She left me because I was not confident and I was too clingy I also begged for her to take me back after she left me but she found someone else about 2 months after the break up. Her boyfriend recently broke up with her about 3 weeks ago and she isn’t devastated by it and I think he might be getting over him. (They go to different high schools) I really want her back and I hope I haven’t messed up too bad. I recently got a new seat next to her and I want to talk to her but I don’t know what to say. The other day was the first time I talked to her since May so we have had had the no contact period all ready. Last week She was crying and I tried comforting her. I’ve also talked to her a tiny bit in the class that we sit by each other but I don’t know what to say. I miss her so much and I need help, thanks.
I broke up with my gf a month ago. We had been dating for 3 months but I wanted to breakup for a reason I can no longer remember. I was doing alright until yesterday, I feel that I need her. I want to tell her that I love her, but she hasn’t talked to me ever since (we’re on the same college, and whenever we get on each other’s way we both act like we don’t exist), help me, please.
My high school is a very big school. Joining a new friend group is almost impossible, especially if you’ve been friends with them for a long time. In fact, I was one of the people that started the friend group, so for me to leave wouldn’t feel right with my friends. My ex just recently joined the friend group before we started dating, and after breaking up, I don’t know how to initiate the no contact rule with her since we see each other every day. By the way, the way my school works is similar to college, where everybody has their own schedule, so my friends and I meet up whenever our breaks align. The problem is that my ex is one of those friends, and having the no contact rule is hard when all of my other friends are around, too. How should I handle my situation? We broke up two weeks ago, and things have been alright between us, but we don’t talk nearly as much as we used to.
Mah galfwend brokeup wth me cos we were having problems (she said she has feelings 4 her Ex) so i ho mad nd tell her lets have space nd we went on space 4 a week nd i got bak to her bt she told me she has no feelings of love 4 me anymore nd she brokeup wth me nd I begged her dat day nd she said we can jst be fwendz nd its been 2days we’ve talkd bt shes communicating wth her EX I really need her bak i need ur hlp Kevin ???
We broke up n I truly just can’t seem to find the reason for it but Ik are feelings aren’t gone
Hi guys,
I have a really big problem now and i seen all of this how to thing but my situation is diffrent.i was with her for a month and my friend was talking crap and bad things about her.i said her that things but when she camed to him and start shouting at him he said that he did not said that and that i lied.he also said that i was talking that things but i didnt.so we are in same class and that friend too.now I dont talk with her but i can see she still loves me.Guys thanks for the help
So me and my ex where dating for 1 year until she decided we stay friends becaus I was getting annoyed that she would always hangout with her ex boyfriend. Now that we broke up she spent the entire month with him holding hands, talkting in empty classes, and now i am not even sure if there dating. So I’ve been treating her like a acountains for the past few weeks but now she deleted all of her instagram pictures that she’s promised she would never do. Basically what I’m trying to say is that I’m scared she might move on for good what can i do.
Ps: My friends are having a diner tonight and i was wondering if i should go because she would be there.
Thank you for reading this
So I need help
Me and my ex, had great times, we lasted for about 2 months. In those two months, we hung out, laughed and joked around alot. Nearing the end of those two months, she became more and more distant, talking to me less and giving me shorter answers. Then one day, we were walking in the hallway and then she said “Ok, i need to come straight out to you, I like you alot, but I dont want a boyfriend right now maybe later but not now” I still like her alot, i have that feeling in my gut you mentioned in this guide. She knows im upset and leaves me alone and I do the same. I have been doing the no contact rule for about a week, and the only thing we do are streaks thats it. She avoids me still and i miss her alot. Lately she has been posting pictures of old semi dances right after she removed me from a spam account we made together . There is prom coming up and I wanted to ask her to it as maybe a chance to get back together. But with prom, there is mid-terms the week before it. She broke up with me three weeks before mid-terms, could that be the reason? With prom coming up, i wanted to ask her but idk if thats a good move. My friends say “move on, she did nothing in the relationship and ur being victimized by it”
Does it look like i have a chance, even tho she has been avoiding me?
Idk if u still respond to comments but it would mean a lot if i could get some help from some one experienced
Kevin can u help me, so me and my gf were dating for awhile but I broke up with her bc I heard she was cheating on me but then I found out she wasn’t and I said sorry and stuff but she said she moved on and me and her just started being friends after that but I secretly still had feelings for her then in summer break I asked her out and she said yes but we dated for 4 days and she broke up with me and now one day even though we aren’t dating she calls me cute and sweet and adorable but then the next day she says she doesn’t have feeling for me at all and today I found out that she calls my friend (she dated him before me) she calls him cute and calls him the things she calls me! And some of her friends tell me she doesn’t love me but some say she does…..So do u think she still wants me or she is just using me? And do I still have a chance with her?
hey dude I am with this really amazing girl but we met in placement. She is no longer in there anymore but I am. She is at her school and I feel like she will find someone better for her. Like she will want someone that she can see everyday and I can’t be that boy. So I asked her if she still wanted to carry it still and she said yes. But I don’t know what to feel or think about the relationship. Like I don’t want to loose her but I feel like I am. What should I do. Reply on here Can’t get to email.
Hey Kevin, I was just wondering if there is a way to ask for advice privately.
Me and my girlfriend dated for 3 months. I’m a senior she’s a junior. Things were going well for the first 2 months. Then I realized I was about to go to college, and I didn’t really want a long distance relationship, so I distanced myself a little. She definitely noticed, didn’t like it. Eventually we agreed to break up. Sucked for both of us but we accepted it. We even still talked to each other a lot after. We even got together a few times. Well one week I went on vacation with my family, and during it, she found someone else. She ignored my text, and told me she wasn’t trying to distance herself from me, so she could make a move. Well I want her back, because it turns out I’m not going far for my college like I originally thought. I applied the no contact for about 3 weeks, and now I occasionally talk to her in the hall at school. Is there still a chance?
I also need some help!!I dated this girl last year in January we broke up 3 times…I last dated her…last year June..She always breaks up with me because she thinks I’m using her for her money and that I played around with her…we in high school In the same grade…We in the same afrikaans class… I don’t know how to make things right and get her back…because most of her friends don’t like me and her close cousin…So please can you try and help me
Hi Kevin,
I was with my girlfriend for 4.5 months and she seemed very happy with me, I met her parents only last week and a week later she broke up with me, she said the relationship was excessive and she had lost feelings for me, but her friends are saying to me it’s another reason and she still loves me, what do I do?
Hi, okay… I really need help and would like a response. My Ex girlfriend just officially broke up with me on June 11th. We were perfect together, nothing was wrong, we treated one another with so much respect and love. I’ve been in this relationship for about 7 months. Since the beginning of summer we had so much planned out, we were going to do so much. About a week ago she went to this counciling camp for a 1 week. We didn’t have contact with one another because she couldn’t use her phone, which I understood. After she came back I felt so happy to get to hangout with her again… But she was different, she didn’t talk to me much and looked like she was hiding something. As soon as I saw a change I stepped in and wanted to make sure she was okay and what was wrong. We got together a couple days after she came home from camp and talked, she told me she started to overthink possibilities of us breaking up and how she looks toward her future. She had so much time on her hands to think and she didn’t talk to me about it at all because she thought it would really hurt me… I totally understand how she felt and what she was thinking, but it all came out of the blue. In our relationship we were so close to each other, she is my best friend. Deep inside she truly changed me into someone better, I fell in love with her. Everything about her was perfect in my eyes, her eyes, hair, smile and laughter, her body, her independence, her love for me.. She told me that she still cares and loves me and promised that she’ll never stop. I felt happy yet really sad after she said it, we made good memories with one another. I hope to make more with her, I get that I’m just a junior in high school, but I want her back.. With our familys, hers loves me and mine loves her. With all this being said, I haven’t mentioned I’m her first boyfriend… There wasn’t anything that went wrong in our relationship, and she still cares and loves me.. There’s so much more to explain but there isn’t anything I could do to her decision making. I haven’t started the no communication thing yet…, and that’s gonna be hard for me to do. Looking forward do you think that there’s a way to get her back and have this relationship last..?
Hey, I am a sophomore in high school and my girlfriend broke up with me 2 days ago extremely unexpected. We had been going very well for just over 4 months and I expected this to last for much longer. She said that I started to feel like more of a friend than boyfriend, but she made it very blunt that she wants to stay friends. I understand the no contact rule, but she lives just under 30 minutes away and I feel like doing this would give her enough time to lose the feelings she still has. I’m motivated to do what I can to get her back, and will do anything it takes as I still feel so strongly for her, and I’m sure there is still feelings from her part. My plan is to remind her how enjoyable I can be to talk to and be with so she forgets about why she ever broke up with me. I need advice badly! Thanks
This same thing actually happened to me me and my gf dated for about 1 month and then she accused me of lying and we got into a big fight and she broke up with me I actually didn’t do the no contact thing for a month is there any chance I can save my relationship. I really want her back she’s a really awesome girl and idk of I can see her with any other guy. I probably should mention I wrote her a lot of texts I shouldn’t have and wrote he a love letter
My ex gf broke up with me over text while she was in colombia for vacation. Everything was amazing and going super well and then one day she just said i cant do this anymore and that i want to be alone. The only thingni did well was the no contact period but I am going to see her in school and I still want her back and its been a month without any form of contact. Im also her first love and boyfriend what do i do?
Hey,
I have a weird situation. I dated a girl that went to a different school for a few months, but it was hard seeing her because she lived on the other side of the city. We mutually broke up, and I guess I accidently did the no contact rule until I ran into her at a football game. I’ve been texting her since, and she doesn’t have any bad feelings for me from what I can see. What can I do?
Hey dude. Me and my girlfriend broke up of the summer, probably because we hadn’t seen each other in two months and probably I didn’t text her in a while because I was super busy. but really I don’t know why, she never told me. When she dumped me I texted her a ton, trying to find out why she did what she did but no reply. And now schools started and I have one class with her every day and same lunch every day. I really want to get back together with her but she won’t answer. I don’t know what to do. I guess I failed the no contact period. Now I feel trapped. And I don’t know what to do. Help?
Me and my gf dated for 2 years and to cut a long story short we went through a lot together, definitly more than the average high school couple. Because of everything we went through, I can’t let go. She ended it because my attitude changed because of certain events in my personal life and I fucked everything up. I didn’t do the no contact rule. I pushed her away even more. It’s been 7 months and I still can’t cope. I know she must still think about me because of everything we went through, maybe not in a love way, but definitly in someform. We left on bad terms and I need to know how to approach her, even if it means we just become friends. Thank you
I’m a female. Me and my boyfriend was dating for 2years and a month. We broke up beause I thought he was cheating on me, but actually I found out that it was messages for his friend. It’s been almost a month sense we’ve broken up but we’ve stayed in contact and had even met up once. He’s acting very nonchalant and careless towards me now. He even told me “f**k love. When he’s ready again someone will find him or he’ll find somebody.” And he’s even been talking to another female. It’s hurtjng me so bad because I’ve met all of his family and he’s met mines. I just want him back and I just want him to be crazy over me again but idk what to do. Can you please help me ?
Hey so my girlfriend just broke up with me a few days ago and I made one day of contact with her asking why she left and if I can get a second chance. She said that I hurt her through texting and she will never feel the same way I do to her so move on. Another problem that hurts is that she plays video games with another guy online so it hurts and makes me believe she might fall for him. So my question is if there is a chance we can be back together.
Haha, funny situation for me…
My ex started talking to me and apologised for how ‘selfish’ she was during our breakup. I just told her to calm down and don’t dwell on the past. But since then, we’ve become really good friends, like she’s tell me how her relationships are going and all. I still love her after 3 years.
Hey, me and my girlfriend just broke up the other day after dating for 2 1/2 months, the reason was that she had a lot of stuff going on and and she needed a break from dating. She said she doesn’t really have the feelings she used to have for me when we first started dating. But she said she still has feelings for me and thinks I’m the sweetest person ever, she just needs a break. I’m not quite sure on what to do in this situation and I’m not sure if she meant what she said. Could you give me some tips?
So my ex girlfriend broke up with me over Skype, around the end of april because I got depressed because she was been as affectionate as I wanted after 7 months of dating and I got depressed because I felt like she cared more about practicing for our schools musical than me. She said she needed time and isn’t responding to any of my messages now that summer has started. I kept pushing her to talk to me, that only seemed to make things worse. She hasn’t responded or talked to me in about 2 weeks. Do you think we have a shot and how can I get her back. I really want and need her back.
Hey this is drew,
I had been dating this girl for a few weeks. She asked for my snap and number and I gave it to her. She recommended that we start to date and I really liked her and said yes. She is 16 and I’m 17. She texted me yesterday and said that her life is busy and that she doesn’t think we should date. She keeps texting me but I don’t know what to do. I really want her back but I don’t understand what happened. She said I was the coolest guy she has met and I’m not sure what to do. Please help.
My girlfriend broke up with me and I did the no contact thing but when I found out she had a thing with one of my closest friends I raged at her. Is there any way I can still get her back even though I violated that step like is she ever gunna think of me in that way again.